Medication and sex dreams??? So I have been on seroquel for about 2 months and in this time I have apparently been moaning and grinding my hips in my sleep. I don't know I am doing this and it is totally out of my control but it is really upsetting my partner. He is self conscious about himself sexually (although he has no reason to be) and thinks that I am dreaming about other men. What can I do to get him to understand that I am completely unaware of this when it happens. I absolutely love this man and don't want anyone else, even in my dreams.